The fact is you yourself cannot understand someone all the time. Hence the prophetic statement of anguish, albeit a desperate or a resigned anguish, is ironical in so far as one would find that for alarge part of life their children are a source of bewildering perplexities, or the politicians never stick to and deliver whatever they speak of or pledge, or why ocassionally your spouse does something that is baffling and difficult to understand. The important thing is not to continue feeling frustrated or worse victimised. The clue is not being offended more often than not for not finding understandable situation. As someone had said learn thetrick of being able to shrug - not just physically, but metaphorically from your mind. It is not prudent when sometimes we see such persons or come in contact with such persons and quickly surmise that the person is a phony. To the contrary the person may be actually someone who does not have the urge or need to let the world or everyone else know who or what or where he or she is all the time. Do not always try to work on a relationship. Lying is not necessarily always immoral. It is more important in those situations of when faced with the duty of calling upon your judgement , to first ask yourself what constitutes a lie?
As Emerson had said every mind has it's own beauty, and each mind has it's own method. Let it be but it is not wise to always try and understand those methods. Good Luck....
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